Neha

This one is dedicated to all the women who read this post....It's something I have been going back these days to when I need the motivation and confidence to move on.....Hope it works for you too :)

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ... enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .. something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE a youth she's content to leave behind....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .. a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .. one friend who always makes her laugh.. and one who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ... a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .. eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .. a feeling of control over her destiny..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... how to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... when to try harder.... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.... how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .. whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... where to go... be it to her best friend's kitchen table.. or a charming Inn in the woods.... when her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. What she can and can't accomplish in a day... a month...and a year...

And friends, don't forget... you are worth every happiness, every joy in the world. You are most beautiful, most intelligent and the best. Don't let anyone take that feeling from you. For if that happens, it (or the person) is simply not worth it!

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  1. Nikita Says:

    This one was good. I think if I become all that I would become superwoman!!! It would be a good try anyway :-)
    Psst.... between you and moi... **Only lacy BLACK bras would do?? How about lacy red ones for example??**
    That was jus my silly sense of humor. You may choose to ignore :-)


  2. Neha Says:

    # Nikita - Anything that makes you feel sexy and confident is good enough...colors are indifferent :)


  3. ani_aset Says:

    EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...

    come one women will always stay a child..they dont need to worry about it...

    "black lacy bra was a nice one" :P


  4. Neha Says:

    # Anirudh - It's the child in a woman that attracts men :)

    And I guess this 'Black lacy' thingee is creating quite a buzz! Adult stuff, huh!


  5. pushkar Says:

    i do not wanna comment on "juicy past,youth she's left behind,a set of screwdrivers ,a cordless drill n a black lace bra"(dnt really knw wht ya meant wen ya wrote dis)n yup nt to frget "wine glasses wid stem"..bt yes fr a change u do sound like a female wid a strong spine..keep it up!!!


  6. Neha Says:

    # Pushkar - In short, a woman needs to be prepared for every situation. And yeah...the spine was always there...gets hidden with emotions sometimes :)


  7. Anonymous Says:

    EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship... Imp one for you to take a note off.. what say


  8. Neha Says:

    @ Anonymous - My writing is a reaffirmation of my thought process...and I write only if I can relate to it. Took note of each and every point and working on them too :)


  9. this is one good article ....... keep it up Neha ;